Make a space for your child desired
Whether you believe in the law of attraction or not, you need to make a space for your new child. I have found tremendous satisfaction in the furnishing and decorating of the child’s bedroom. Get the crib, the blankets, do the paint and decals. Even some of the clothing you will need. I highly recommend keeping purchases to used kids clothing stores until your child arrives so that you can better judge the sizes you will need. If you look around, you will find plenty of name brand and cute clothing for sale for a few dollars. Depending on your budget of course, will determine where you shop. I have an entire dresser filled with up to 3 sizes larger than what I anticipate needing to start. All of these items cheap or free through local donation sources.
Of course, you will need to be sure on the sex of your child desired when preparing in advance. We are waiting for a boy, so I chose a denim blue color for the room with a convertible 5 in 1 crib, a used dresser (looks like new) and decals. Some will appreciate the effort to keep costs down. I also found the decals easy to use and create a fun theme.
After it was all set up, I go in there and sit for a while when the house is quiet and focus my thoughts on the child that would fill the space. Some say that 3 minutes of uninterrupted thought can really help draw the child to you. The Law of Attraction in a nutshell says that what you think about you bring about. So if you concentrate on this child and nothing else for up to 3 minutes, this is said to speed up the process. I have downloaded a photo of a boy, what I envision our child will look like. This requires a bit of searching but it relatively easy. With this photo, I can better visualize the child in his new bedroom.
I have also turned this photo into a bit of a poster and every morning I look at it and read what is written beside the photo. I recommend doing whatever is meaningful to you.
Now, with all of this going on, a person wouldn’t have time to worry about whether or not you will find this child right? This has helped me a lot in staying focused and sane in the process of waiting. If you are reading this, please feel free to comment and tell me other techniques you have used and if you wish to share them.